Temptress!
“R. Yohanan says: We learn fear of sin from a maiden (betullah). He heard of a maiden who would prostrate herself saying "Master of the World! You created Gan Eden and Gehinnom (hell), the righteous and the wicked. May it Be Your Will that I not cause men to sin." Sotah 22a
The discussion about modest dress should be about keeping the female body beautiful and special. But often it is about shame and disgrace. judging women and their bodies and seeing them vessels for sin and temptation to sinful behaviour. Walking talking yetzer horas (evil inclination). Making women ashamed not celebratory of their bodies, their curves, their sexual selves. Like an alcoholic blaming the bottle of wine for their own inability to only have 1 or 2 glasses, the men blame the women for tempting them, for their lack of control.
Back to the quote, the maiden (the Hebrew is betullah, a virgin) is a sexually inexperienced young girl is praying to God because she is afraid of sin. But whose sin is it? Not hers, but the men who may be aroused by her body. Her body who the 'Master' created. This is a story that men tell themselves about women. It allows men to abdicate their sexual responsibility as they tell themselves that women have taken this role on. It sexualises young women, and puts their bodies in a context of shame and disgrace.
The discussion about modest dress should be about keeping the female body beautiful and special. But often it is about shame and disgrace. judging women and their bodies and seeing them vessels for sin and temptation to sinful behaviour. Walking talking yetzer horas (evil inclination). Making women ashamed not celebratory of their bodies, their curves, their sexual selves. Like an alcoholic blaming the bottle of wine for their own inability to only have 1 or 2 glasses, the men blame the women for tempting them, for their lack of control.
Back to the quote, the maiden (the Hebrew is betullah, a virgin) is a sexually inexperienced young girl is praying to God because she is afraid of sin. But whose sin is it? Not hers, but the men who may be aroused by her body. Her body who the 'Master' created. This is a story that men tell themselves about women. It allows men to abdicate their sexual responsibility as they tell themselves that women have taken this role on. It sexualises young women, and puts their bodies in a context of shame and disgrace.
